A letter to Love

I love you , Je T'aime, S'Agapo, Te Amo, Ninpenda WeWe, Sarang Heyo

All in all no matter how you say this. It all kind of mean the same thing. It all revolves around one word LOVE.  The definitions of love are indefinite. One can say I love kit kats, or I love to go to work everyday because I love what I do.   Or one can say that is my ultimate love right there my Lil puppy Pork chops. ( no my puppy name is not pork chops). 

But the one we all can relate too when you think of LOVE is a strong emotion of some sort. A strong attraction to a person of interest. This emotion can be so illusive at times, this feeling can  pass someone by.

I don't have this Love thing in my life. I mean I have a grandeur LOVE.  She comes in about almost 4 feet or a lil' more, she just turned 8 years of age and she the love and the light of my life. ( my mini me folks).

Well, I want this Love that folks talk about the one you fall into. You know folks the one that you are walking down the street whistling and all minding your,  business thinking about how you want to skip spring and go straight to summer... and ...... BAM!!!! BOOM!!!! WOW!!! You see a person of interest and this person of interest sees you, and birds start chirping, and angels start showing up around you, smell of Orchids are strong in the air.... and it has arrived LOVE at first sight, or second or third.  What ever...  

Yes I have yet given up on this Love.  ( the Love that evokes emotion with the opposite sex physically and mentally).

I was thinking you know. Let's say Love is a goddess. Yes she is I mean this Love has so many personalities. So of course it will be woman in charge of Love.

I have yet to give up on Goddess Love.  Yes, I will classify her as a female. DUH!  I mean really why would you even ask?  I want to know what it is too have this Love. Don't get me wrong I already I already have this Love that is never ending, Grand, Great, Super awesome, Incredible, again my mini me...  Since she came into this world 8 years past and has enlightened my life every step of the way.  This Love, This love is unconditional.  This love only a mother who truly loves her child will know exactly what I feel. I live for her.  Because trust me sometimes I think my child is an Alien. But what I do is for her. To better her life.  So she can grow up and be whom ever she wants to be.  Like a drummer/rock star/ear nose and throat doctor. (this is what she told me she wanted to be, she also mentioned she would like @ShannonLeto to teach her how to play the drums true story. Mami is working on it baby!).

In any case, the love I am still searching for, waiting for is another kind of love all together.

So I will confess.  To the Goddess of Love.  I have not given up on you, I still believe in you.  And I am ready for you. 

So I decided to write her a letter.

Ahem.....

Dear Goddess of Love

I hope that when you receive this letter, you are great in health and spreading your love all around.  Trust me some of us around the world need you to shower us with this love.

I am writing this letter to thank you for all the love you have bestowed upon me.  Though I feel like I know you intimately since you have touched my life with so many different type of love, being family, friends or my great, beautiful mini me.

I am sending this out to you, well, because even though you have shown your power and showered me with gifts.  I was wondering if it is not too much to ask. Can you show a Lil bit of mercy upon me?

Please show me what Love really is. I don't want a perfect kind of Love, that only authors write about in fantasy and romance novels.  Because that will just bore me to death and well I will be writing you another letter just like this one. 

I would like for you to please show me what it is too be in love with this person (whom ever you are sending my way). 

Please introduce this love through passion, trust, communication, fun, aspiring, creative.  Understanding, comprehensive, and patient. Along with being supportive, funny, and different. Goddess can this love have a touch of stubbornness, personality, humanity, ready to be a family together.  Oh with a dash, fire, spice, and Lil torture (ah ya this makes love interesting and fun).  This love should not be scared and ready to experience what I have to offer, what Love has to offer.

I would like for this Love to be accepting of my faults and my mini me also. (I mean warn him please my mini me is you know part alien and all. Let's not scare the dude off.)  Goddess Love, you see this Love that I am looking for is a man that knows what he wants and how he wants it.

Oh I am so sorry Goddess of love, If I am asking for too much hollah at me.!

But I think it is evident.... Goddess of Love One thing is for sure...

And that is

  I am Ready for Love... 

 No, I really am.  So if you know anyone that will love to put up me and my mini me and all I have to offer.  Let them know you know just the right person. ..

Sincerely yours,

@M1Mely1

P.S. Call me if you have any questions.

Wooooo!! Kit Kat's

Hey let me tell you why I love Kit Kat's. And Why they are so damn AWESOME!

I have 10 reasons.
  Are you ready for this world?

Oh Kit Kat's I so heart you!

1.  It is made out of chocolate. Need I say More? Halo? The sweet chocolate that assaults your mouth is just so much goodness.

2.  The thin layer of wafer cookie just so much Awesomeness. Just so yummy in my tummy.

3.  The fact that of that fabulous sweet chocolate in between the wafer cookies. Layers upon Layers.  I MEAN WOW!!

4.  The fact that 1 piece Just. Won't. Do.  You are addicted immediately to the goodness. Hey that is why the chocolate bar comes in 4 pieces. 

5.  OOH I mean really they taste just awesome. Really they do.

6.  The fact that when you bite into one piece. Just one piece. You automatically smile. Oh YES YOU DO.

7.  Oh and guess this.   I have not met one person. Not one person. Who well turn down a Kit Kat piece when you offer it to them. I mean have you? ( Oh wait unless you are Jared Leto. Yea he is a Vegan. And well he is missing all this awesomeness.  Some one needs to tell the man. !!)

8.  Hey and now the Kit Kat's come in JUMBO SIZE!!! I mean WOO HOO!!!

9.  How about no matter how many Kit Kat's you eat. You do not get sick of them. I mean I can inhale a whole bag of Kit Kat's in one sitting it will take me about what 15 minutes the most. (WHOA! I think this is a world record)

10.  Last but not least. FOLKS if you have not gotten the great picture here. Kit Kat's are just awesome. OH YES THEY ARE!!!

What are you waiting for? I know now you want some. I don't really share my Kit Kat's. True Story ask @allii31 and @TrayM6. I will probably give 2 pieces out of a bag of them.  WHAT? get your own damn it!!  I don't even like to share with my own Mini Me.

P.S. If any of the Kit Kat's folks who work for them or make the damn goodness. If you need a spokesperson for it. HOLLAH at ME!!!

A shout out! To Awesome!

New BFF’s 

Halo there my peeps.

As I sit here trying to think of what to write in my bloggy. My brain is going like 98 miles per hour.  No,  yes it is.  True Story.!!  I  have  this thing called short attention span.  I will start a conversation and loose you in the middle of the conversation,  or maybe loose myself in the conversation and then start another one.  Yes I know I know confusing right?  Oh I see I just lost you too. HUH?  I am so confused my damn self right now.  See I told you 98 miles per hour right there !

So I decided to blog about a Band.    

Here I am a Caribbean Queen Diva from the Isla del Encanto Puerto Rico.  My  taste in music is huge.  I love salsa, meringue, bachata, balz (all Latin music folks).   I also heart old school hip hop, R&B, reggae, soft rock, classic rock, Rock, R&B and Soul(yes this is music Motown some of you might of heard of it). Oh I like some classical music, hey just music in general.  OK not all music I can’t do Polka, I just can’t sorry I have tried and tried and tried and so failed with a CAPITAL  F!!  Oh some Country not all, just some OK?(like maybe 2% or less)

OK so this past Sunday November 14.^th the Fab. Trio. @allii31 and @TrayM6 oh and I totally fabulous @M1Meli1.  Went on a mini road trip about 2.5 hours and some change to New Hampshire.  The reason for this trip you may be wondering?  OK we made it to see one of fave band’s @AgainAndAgainWA. Wat up guys?   Dutch, XwesX, Nate and Geff. Yes you see this awesomeness right there?  First name basis with our boys. Totally fabulous I say!

We went to see them because they are just great band musically.  In no way am I selling out. 30STM’s, they  are my heart.  Hey @jaredleto, @tomofromearth, @shannonleto HOW YOU DOING?  The fab. Trio love this band so much. We are going to see them perform Feb. 4^th, In NY and Feb 5^th in CT. Wow what a treat right? Oh you see here I go again going off the subject.   Sorry guys Wes, Dutch Nate and Geff. This here is all about you. Yes it is!!

OK so after that looooooooooonnnnngggg  ass ride to Nowhere ville New Hampshire in the boonies somewhere.  I mean so in the boonies that @TrayM6 and @allii31 where hearing the banjos, and fearing for their lives.( No fret though I was just fine. Being fabulous and all I blend in just well. Plus if you read my bloggy on 7 steps to the front row. You will know I am Hood Certified.   Oh wait I need to be Boonies Certified huh?    I am working on it!!)

Finally, we get there and watch the cutest school kids perform.  Though I might say I have a pickle to pick with one of the dudes from one of the bands that played that night( who had the nerve to call us the fab. Trio out! Yea we have beef).   No kit Kat's for you! How you like them apples?

Again (98 miles per hour) see what I mean.?  Guys don’t you worry your little talented selves. I will talk about your skills.  So finally our band AgainAndAgain is going to perform. Hello the reason for the mini road trip was to see them perform duh!  Well that and I wanted to meet my BFF Dutch. Hey Dutch how you doing?

 Maybe I should get meds. or something.   I keep changing the subject.  Well another reason I wanted to meet these guys(other  than their skills in playing all), you have to hear the drummer. The man has exquisite skills with the drumming.  (Psst. I kinda of developed a crush just because of his drumming skills. WHAT? I know right! But hey then you meet all the guys in the Band and you might develop a crush on all them. What can I say?)

 Well I went there with just 1 Bff and left there with two Bff’s. How awesome is that? And now we are friends with  @XwesX (this is the drummer with mad skills).  Ask my sis @TrayM6 she is an experience rocker.   We are working on Nate next.  Watch out guy, you get some of this fab. Trio awesomeness and you will be sucked into the Circle of fabulousity.   Ask Dutch and Wes we are just, hmm what can I say? Great!

You see the moral of this bloggy is. These guys do not get enough credit for their skills.  They are awesome and friendly.  Both of their CD’s are just great too listen too,  I love all of the songs.    Their songs are all great to the point you won’t forward any of them to get to the next song.  Give these guys a chance and listen to them. You can visit their site www.againandagainband.com. Hey guys you see that  right there?!  Worthy of some Kit Kat's!!  Or you can follow them on Twitter @AgainAndAgainWA, they will talk back to you.  How many great bands you know will do that.?

What I am saying for those who  still don’t get the BIG PICTURE I have painted here is, if you say you love  Music and Music loves you.  It will not hurt for you to visit the site and listen to them. TRUE STORY ask @allii31 and @TrayM6.  Oh even better  ask the guys yourself. They will tell you.!!

I am out for now.

P.S. stay tuned for the Ten reasons why Kit Kat's are so awesome. (I love Kit Kat's and Kit Kat's love me!) True Story.!

You Might Just be Over Qualified. HUH?

Halo there Folks

I know, I know it has been a while since I bloggied.  Well let me tell you. I had a lot to talk about but nothing to talk about.

Do you know what I mean?  You see I have been on a mission. No not to Mars with my boys 30STM’s (which by the way will not be a bad idea might I add, have you seen them they are totally awesome in every way). Even though I have been getting a little Gritty since we will be partying with our Gritty boys this coming Sunday. What up AgainAndAgainWA!!!

I have been on a mission to find myself. Yes I am 30 years of age or not (who is counting right? Shoot I am not).  Yes I am in my 30’s like I said and I am lost.

Yes lost. I thought that at this age I would know who I am and what I want.  Well guess what folks I am wrong and so are you. Yes we both are wrong what are the odds of that? Huh?  I Just figured out maybe like 4 months ago I totally hate where I work. I don’t dislike all my co-workers, I do dislike some of them. (Right I ain't no angel, a goddess maybe but no damn Angel Puuh Leeze!) 

 I went to school for what I am doing at this moment. And lately I really hate waking up, showering, looking for something to wear, getting my high heels on,(& trust me I do have a pretty nice collection), doing my hair, getting my mini me dressed up to school, dropping her off at daycare and then driving all those minutes to work and clocking into work. All thanks too one person who set the wheels in motion and then it all went to hell.

How is it that for the past what 7 or so years I have been doing this same thing I went to school for and just lately I hate the same thing I used too love?

How did this happen? How did this happen? So for the past 60 days I have been online and looking in the news paper for jobs. Oh yes I have been on interviews but get this.

Wait for it wait for it. BAM!!! Here it is. One of the interviews I went for I make more than the office manager herself. Hello? How is that possible?  So you know the outcome of that. Yup no call from them.  Oh well water under the bridge.

Today I had a mini phone interview and home girl on the phone seemed like she was cool. First, she said "well I would like to schedule an interview". I said "OK that is great". She asked me some quick questions you know I guess trying to get to know my phone techniques I guess. Here is part of our convo    AHEM::

Home girl “So M1Mely1 tell me really quick why you are looking to leave your current position?”(wait first off you did not think I will say my name: This is not Destiny Child Puuleeze!!!)

Me: “Well my main reason is the 23-45 minute travel. I would like something closer to my home”

Home girl: “Oh that sounds reasonable, How long have you been there?

Me:  “Oh 5 years”

Home girl: “WOW that is impressive well I need to know what are your actual responsibilities, your skills, etc..”

Me:  BLAH BLAH BLAH BLEE BLAH BLAH  ooo laa laa, ( What the hell ya’ll, I am not gonna tell ya what I do for work geesh a little privacy” Ugh!)

Home girl:  “Oh wow, well just to tell you, first off just right there, you are over qualified for this position. But I will run it through my HR supervisor and call you back for an interview date ok”

Me: “OK” ;?

Right you are thinking what I am thinking. Why the hell doesn’t the lazy HR supervisor call the person instead. Now this home girl will not tell the HR supervisor about me. UGH!! NO make that a triple UGH!!

I have applied for a lot of jobs so many I can’t keep count. It is the same across the board. I work in a different state. I am trying to work in the same city I live in. And this means taking a pay cut. But I am not having such luck.  Oh well I will then on a daily basis keep my search to find myself and find this job. Oh because folks I am looking for jobs that have nothing to do with what I currently do. So I can have a change of pace you can say. But no such luck.  Or maybe once I find this so called better job I can go back to school part time and finish my degree. RIGHT?

Well folks here I am on a quest to find myself. OY I just hope I find myself before I get lost (trust me in mind I am always lost) and it’s too late.

Thanks for listening to me babble. I am out until next time.

CIAO Adios

I think My Daughter has Alien-i-tis.

My Alien/Divaish Daughter.

My daughter the Alien.

Yup I said it damn it!!!

 I feel like she is from 2 galaxy over from the milky way.

You know that galaxy around the corner you hook a right and there it is.

Well damn she must be an alien because It. Is. Not. Normal the things she does  and say.

Let me give you a description of my 7 year old princess,  a day in my daughters life. Is not ordinary.  No never is.

I mean I know there are  parents out there thinking this is just terrible and that I don’t love my mini me calling her Alien and all. OK then for those uptight parents that do not know how to have fun with their child this bloggy is not for you. Soooooo go ahead and delete me from your list. Or skip this blog. I DON’T CARE!!!!!!! But for those who have similar kids from the two galaxy over.  Or the planet Mars(Martians), Jupiter, etc.  Then you are with me on this.

  It is what it is.

OK now that the warning is out the way.

Mini me and we shall call her Diva, or Rock star, Or Mini Goddess take your pick. Since she is all those and more.

My mini goddess since she was born was not like other kids. I know no two kids are alike. AND NO ONE WARNED ME!!!!!! When other girls are ooh mommy princess, or oh mom Cinderella. Mine was Mami Mami witches, shrek, little monsters, and pirates and skulls and the corpses bride!!!!.

My mini Goddess can be a little prissy but if she has to defend herself from a bully at the slides or at the swings. She will go ahead and ruin all  the pretty clothes defending herself chopping that boy or girl in the stomach.  And no I do not promote violence.  UGH Really? Really??  (Again did I or did I not tell you parents that can't handle the awesome fabulousity of my mini me to go ahead and move it along? UGH!!! Really you uptight strict can't have fun......).  But don’t get me wrong, me being a bully victim.. She will not, I repeat she will not be a victim herself.  She is a green stripe in tae kwon do. She has the skills to defend herself from a bully if need be, she does not abuse it.

Because those who have taken any martial arts know that self discipline is the key.  But hey if Jerome that is 10 years old has pushed her down and pulled her hair. By all means baby defend your self and then come to see me so I can take it up with Jerome mom or dad.

 My Little Awesome, Fabulous ,Rockstar Alien.  My little rock star from a young age has been unique.

When she was 1 I think it’s the only time I can say she had a normal b-day and Halloween.  She was a bumble bee for Halloween, and her b-day was about Dora.

Then came her second year. My daughter has been talking since she was eleven months old. Her first word was :

POP translation Stop.  Yes I know not the traditional mama or daddy.

And then she sang in her car seat on my to my sisters house. A huge hip hop song Title: Lean Back, by Fat Joe.

Bean Back translation lean back. She would sing just the chorus. And then she said mama, I know I know sheesh. Really a hip hop song was her first sentence? 

Let’s forward to through years. She has always been a different child. She at times has behavioral issues, and anger issue also.  That is what makes her mine. She is awesome I tell you. Keeps me on my toes.

With that said her second year of life. She was a : giga bug – lady  bug. She had this obsession with them I know this is normal yes until we had to dress like it and purchase a cake 3d, by the way in, a shape of a giga bug.  

3^rd year of her fabulous life. Now she spoke more she was a horse for Halloween. Because nothing I mean nothing we looked at she liked. No not Dora, not a princess, not fairy nothing cute. She decided on a horse. OK I gave her what she wanted.

Her 3^rd b-day was a shrek/Dora event. Half of the cake was shrek the other half had Dora and boots on it. Enough said with this one I should Of taken it as a sign of Alienitis.

4^th b-day She was speaking like a 6 year old. Oh she was potty trained by the 2^nd yr. She hated pull ups or diapers. And she wanted grown undywear.

Her 4^th bday’ We all were fairies. Yes we all were. She was in love with tinker bells. I was so elated a little sign of girly is showing and the symptoms of Aleintisis was diminishing. She dressed the part that little princess of ours and so did the other girls looking like little fairies all around the party. Now I should of known the little princess stage would not last. For Halloween folks she was a fairy poca hontas.  Yes poca hontas with fairy wings. Every time folks saw , they would be like Oh Poca .. Oh um you have wings. I would have to come and say she is a poca hontas fairy. Yes a poca hontas fairy.

OK her 5^th b-day was of a rat called Ratoullie, (I think) a movie. She fell in love with this rat. And Well we were eating rats on her b=day cake. For Halloween she was as scary princess with wings. Oh for the love of Kit Kat's. It was hard trying to get her in pretty gown, attach the wings, and then putting on her scary make up.  Then try to explain this to folks at the door.  UGH!

6^th b-day brace yourselves folks.  We were sent back to the Punky Brewster era.

No she has never seen an episode nor does she know of this show. She still does not know who punky Brewster is.  Everyone I mean everyone came to the b-day in mismatch everything and bright blinding colors. This is what she wanted to skate in. Her b-day cake colors, lime green, bright purple and hot pink. ( all along she had a tiara, since you know she is a princess/diva/mini goddess/ rock star).  Her clothes were from the next galaxy. Oh and by the way for all her b-days dressing the part is a requirement.   Everyone had fun since no one matched and everyone felt right at home.  Halloween this year she was some kinda ghost, she called her self a ghouly ghost. I don’t know what that is. She had spiders on her hair( fake ones I tell you, I have super huge large fear of anything that has more than 4 legs). Her hair was white and black her face painted in white and blood. I still don’t know what she was. When folks asked I would answer I don’t know. !!!

Her 7^th b-day.  Ah well.  For her 7^th b-day we were pirate/princess. And no not the damsel in distress. She was the damsel who caused the distress. (Sorry @AgainAndAgainWA). She had a tiara, with an eye patch and blinged out pirate, skulls  clothes.  Oh what can I say, we are used to her already. Her cake folks I had to travel an hour and some change for it. It was a 3D skull. No really we were eating a shape of a skull beheaded of course.  Again need I remind you we all had to dress the part. TRUE STORY.  Ask around everyone had an eye patch when we song  her happy b-day.

Finally for this Halloween my baby did not choose, cute girly vampire, or a cute little devil, nor a anything cute at all. NO !!!!!! She had one of my sister's M6 help her choose a really scary costume.

Hold on to your Kit Kat's. No wait Those are my Kit Kat's. Hold on to your own Candy....
Folk this Halloween.  This Diva is a dead Rag Doll. With two pig tails. With skulls in her in hair. With a Spiked choker, and skulls bracelets. Her make up gives me the hi bee Jeeves just thinking about it.  Oh she could not choose a little cute devil No!! Or a cute vampire.. That I can deal with. NO FOLKS! She is a DEAD RAG DOLL!!!   Not even a cute one at all... Oh geesh....Brace yourself folks because we already are making plans for her 8^th b-day next year.  We are too dress in too-toos and skate board gear. She is into skate boarding and rip sticks. Yes the girls shall wear skate board gear but have a too-too on. The boys need to look more like Justin Beiber. Her cake, will be a 3D shape of a girly skate board with a too- too somewhere in there.  I will have to call my cake lady 2 months in advance. 

 I QUIT!!!!!!  I nominate myself and FIRE MYSELF!!! I AM FIRED!!!!!!!

So hence my daughter is an alien. From two galaxies down yonder or over.

She is fun, gives me a run for my money, but she is mine. And Alien or not she is what it is. I dread what she will be like at 13.  But I brace myself for the years to come.  And right now folks I must go tuck in my little alien mini goddess into her Hot Pink Skull sheets. Oh what you did not think her room would be normal?  Ha!! Right !!! No folks her room is in hot pink skulls sheets, and skulls on her wall, With deep purple curtains. And cute butterflies at her door.   And A Hot Mess Might I Add....

With that said folks I have just introduced you the world’s most unique 7 year old.  And no one has her but me. I shall keep it that way. I do share her with close family and friends.  But the craziness is something I look forward too with her.

You might have a child or children suffering from this but don't fret. Its OK enjoy it you and your children only have 1 life to live. So make it a memorable one.

I say good day.  I am out.

Oh for those parents who think this is normal. Shut the F*&( up because everyone knows poca hontas do not have fairy wings. !!!!!!! GEESH!!!! UGH.....

7 Steps to the Front Row! Please Read It Works!

Halo There Folks.

My Darkest Days
Trapt
Skillet
Papa Roach

 These are the bands the fab. Trio went to see perform last light.   Let me say it was awesome for the most part. In some part it is true what my sis M5 states she feared for her life.  (psst. don't worry I am hood certified I had her back all along).  In all honesty between the mosh pits, and almost being crushed to death and wait the the murder death kill huge dude.  We almost died and let me tell you it was AWESOME!!!!!

Being in that huge mess is how I  got my sis @allii31 aka M5 and I @TrayM6 aka M6  and myself to the front crowd to the front row.  Close enough to Jacobi the front man from Papa Roach be able to sweat all over you every time he head bangs.  Close enough to smell his arm pits when he lifts the arms to rock. 

Folks close enough  to him to have him spit on you when he is screaming the lyrics to the song "CUT MY LIFE INTO PIECES, THIS IS MY LAST RESORT, SUFFOCATION NO BREATHING, DON'T GIVE A F&^* IF I CUT MY ARMS BLEEDING!!!"

Yup that close that I knew what brand of eye liner he had. OK no maybe not the eye liner. But you get my drift.. Right close.

So folks read carefully here are the steps to get to the front row if you find yourself way back. Back in the crowd you can't see if the front man is wearing eye liner.

Warning:  Do not proceed and do this If The Fab. Trio is in the vicinity.  Since we will be doing this ourselves.  So please do it on your own time, and your own concerts ETC.... with this said...

Step 1. Arrive to the venue early of course. So you can at least be close enough to the front.

Step 2. Band is playing rock on sing along if you know the lyrics, and if not, so who cares rock on with them damn it..... that is why you are there...

Step 3. Move a little closer,  no one is paying attention, the music is loud.  Guitar is going, drums are popping, and screaming is happening. Your moving a little close right.  STOP DAMN IT !!!! don't make it obvious... Sheesh.  what the hell!!!!

Step 4.   MOSH PIT BREAK OUT!!!!!!Band number 3  in our case is Skillet I for 1 heart the lead singer.  Have you seen the triceps, biceps, and pecs on him? Shoot you would to.. Never mind that... The band is so an equal opportunist when it comes to employment.. The drummer is a CHICK, and one of the guitarist,  vocals assist, and also plays the keys is a CHICK!!. Never mind that...

Back to steps, in this case Skillet was playing and the 1st mosh pit broke out.  By then folks was on their 5th beer.  So I took saw chance, I never been in mosh pit myself so being Hood certified and all you know survival 101.  When the crowd  came my I pushed the crowd back. While pushing the crowd back I was walking forward towards the front.  Ah uh you see what I did. I just moved a whole crowd forward now I am almost to that front row not quite.

Step 5.  Follow step 4  (after the 3rd mosh pit you should be by the 3rd row to the front row)

Step 6.  Last and Final Band PAPA ROACH comes out and the MOSH PIT breaks out.  THIS IS YOUR CHANCE FOLKS.... This is when you take those extra step and make it to the front row.  Push step, push, scream, sing, walk, head bang... Push, sing, walk, wave your hand in the air, hop, and walk, now you are just a row behind the front row.  Now you can see his eye color and the eye liner.  And the murder death kill dude that got kicked out for almost killing dude in the front row.  (folks when I say push, I mean push the folks in the mosh pit. Do not! I repeat Do not push Folks radomly.  You might get chopped in the throat!!!)

Step 7.  Final step  ROCK OUT!!! YOU MADE IT!!!!! You are in the front row with all the other sweaty folks and Papa Roach on stage or whom ever is your band that is on stage.

You can thank me now, or not, you can thank me later after the concert... And you have no voice because you just screamed your ass off to your band singing to the lyrics.. And you want to get home asap.  To take off the sweaty clothes you have since you got sweated on by the front man him self.

Follow these steps and trust me you will be in the front row in no time.. TRUE STORY.. Ask @allii31 or @TrayM6

Well Folks I am out

@M1Meli!

No to Bullycide!

Halo There Folks,

"Mom says Springfield boy, 11, who committed suicide

was repeatedly bullied at school."

"Nine Charged in Bullying of Massachusetts Teen Who Killed Herself"

"11-Year-Old Hangs Himself after Enduring Daily Anti-Gay Bullying"

"After a long period of bullying at school Jared B High took his life at home aged 13 years "

" Joseph Daniel Scruggs hung himself in his bedroom closet without leaving a suicide note. He was 12 years old."

 "13-year-old Ryan Patrick Halligan commits suicide after being bullied at school"

BULLYCIDE- suicide caused as the result of depression from bullying, especially children

These headlines are aweful, but guess what they are all true. Just last week bullycide made head lines again. 

We as parents, as students, as friends as co-workers, we need to do something. We need to take a stand.  We have to. Our kids are at stake. This is not a style that will go away.

Speaking of experience. Being a victim of being bullied when I was young. I take this to heart. This is something we have to take seriously.  It is not OK for our kids to kill them selves because of how awful they are being treated on a daily basis.  Yes I grew up and dealt with it. These are different times. Things are not getting any better.

Bullying hurts on both sides. The victim and the aggressor.  We need to think where is it coming from, and why?

I'm a single mother and this is one thing I can't accept.  I take this seriously.  As should you. There is help out there for the victims and the parents.
Parents if you know you child is doing the damage please act upon it before it's too late.  Before action is taken upon them.

You can take action in your community by going to your child's school and speaking to the Principle yourself.  Put some rules to action.  Petition these rules until your voice is heard.  Until this is law in your state.

Don't be one of many parents who's child make headlines due to bullycide.  There is help out there. Take the time out to help out, to research, to take action.

Your child's life depends on this.

@M1Mely1

 

Bullying hurts.  It is painful, degrading, hurtful, humiliating, depressing.  And as you saw the headlines it is affecting younger and younger kids. No this is not a joke some folks may brush this off and say oh well they will get over it.  No they will not.  This damaging.